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THREE kinds of people live in the world, a joke says,
bilinguals, multilinguals and Americans. But that’s not the
case with Paul and his family.
Paul Duffy, a 41-year-old from Boston, is learning Chinese
at Shenzhen University and feels very proud of his wife and
son who are both fluent in Chinese.
The family has been in town for six months after his wife,
Mae, was sent here by her company.Mae was born in Beijing and
migrated to the U.S. at the age of 13, Paul said. But he was
unaware of her fluent Chinese until the family transferred to
Taiwan three years ago where her company opened a new branch.
“We spoke English all the time back home,” Paul said.The
couple has been together for 16 years, and Paul still
remembers the first time they met.
“I was managing a night club in the navy, and she was a
special guest that night.” Paul asked three times before Mae
agreed to dance with him.
“She came to visit me in my training base a month later
and that was our first formal date,” he said.They decided to
move to Asia for a better family life. Back in Boston, Paul
had been engaged in the restaurant industry all those years
and spent most of his nights and weekends at work.
“It’s time to make up for my family,” he said. They
traveled a lot in Asia after settling in Taiwan, and welcomed
their first child on the island. Paul taught children in an
international kindergarten and helped train teachers there.
“Troy is the only non-native kid in his kindergarten and
he is doing well with the others, ” he said. Born in Taiwan,
the boy naturally took up Chinese. He is already a
multinational. He likes Chinese food but gets very excited at
the sound of “pizza.” |